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5 Life lessons from the movie Dear Zindagi

Hello! Friends, Last Sunday, I watched a movie called "Dear Zindagi'. Though I am not fond of watching movies. But when my friend suggested this movie, I decided to give it a chance and really it was worth watching and worth sharing too...


Relationships and life


Here are some great lessons I learned from the movie "Dear Zindagi"  ---


1. Don’t choose the tough path just because you have to:
We’re conditioned to believe that to achieve our dreams, we must go through hardships. Unless we go through a difficult struggle, we won’t achieve the ultimate prize. But that’s not always the case. Choose a path that you feel comfortable with, even if it’s the easier one.

2. There’s no such thing as the ‘perfect partner’:

We look for a partner who is just ‘perfect’ and we know, that’s just too much pressure. We don’t have these perfect expectations from friends, so why pressurize yourself to find that perfection in a partner? We know we’re not perfect either!

3. Don’t judge yourself. And don’t let others judge you:

Don’t judge yourself or let anybody else judge you if you can’t stay in a relationship. It’s only you who knows if it isn’t working out. We’re all looking for someone special & it’s not always possible to find them in the first try.

4. Don’t stay in a relationship if you’re suffering:

Don’t suffer if you’re not comfortable in the relationship just because you’re afraid to hurt your partner. If you’re suffering, the relationship will doom anyway.

5. Parents are people too. Don’t judge them too harshly for their mistakes:

We expect our parents to act in a god-like perfect way. But if we manage to see beyond the relationship, they’re people too. They will sometimes make mistakes and once we realize that, it’s easier for us to understand and accept their actions.

If I had to ask you, when was the last time you really, truly expressed your feelings? When was it that you cried because you felt like it? Or laughed because you wanted to? If you can’t remember, you know what I’m talking about.

 For some odd reason, we’re living in times when the true test of a person’s strength is to always keep it together. We can’t show what we’re feeling, we’re always being judged for behaving a certain way and no matter how close a person may be, we somehow can’t open ourselves to them.

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