The Awakened Phoenix

Hello! Friends, Last Sunday, I watched a movie called "Dear Zindagi'. Though I am not fond of watching movies. But when my friend suggested this movie, I decided to give it a chance and really it was worth watching and worth sharing too... Here are some great lessons I learned from the movie "Dear Zindagi"  --- 1. Don’t choose the tough path just because you have to: We’re conditioned to believe that to achieve our dreams, we must go through hardships. Unless we go through a difficult struggle, we won’t achieve the ultimate prize. But that’s not always the case. Choose a path that you feel comfortable with, even if it’s the easier one. 2. There’s no such thing as the ‘perfect partner’: We look for a partner who is just ‘perfect’ and we know, that’s just too much pressure. We don’t have these perfect expectations from friends, so why pressurize yourself to find that perfection in a partner? We know we’re not perfect either! 3. Don’t judge yoursel...

When my daughter, the older of my two, wed and left home, I felt a part of me gone. With a daughter and a son, I know what both mean, differently. When she was in her teens I felt as if she was my "physical extension" ! So when she left home to set up her own, I felt I lost a limb. Next time she came to stay with us, I was astonished how her priorities had changed. We too must've given the same shocks to our own parents ! When she said Amma, she meant her mother-in-law, not me! I felt she was always in a hurry to go back to her house and not stay with me for a few more days.  That was the first time, it dawned on me that I have to start practising detachment with attachment. Two years after my daughter’s marriage, my son left for higher studies to US. Having experienced a child's separation once, I was better equipped emotionally. I plunged head long into various classes held in the city starting from vedanta to healing to ikebana -  I just wa...

1st Don’t let someone become a priority in your life, when you are just an option in their life. Relationships work best when they are balanced… 2nd Never explain yourself to anyone. Because the person who likes you doesn’t need it and the person who doesn’t like you won’t believe it… 3rd When you keep saying you are busy, then you are never free. When you keep saying you have no time, then you will never have time. When you keep saying that you will do it tomorrow, then your tomorrow will never come… 4th When we wake up in the morning, we have two simple choices. Go back to sleep and dream, or wake up and chase those dreams. Choice is yours… 5th We make them cry who care for us.    We cry for those who never care for us. And we care for those who will never cry for us. This is the truth of life, it’s strange but true. Once you realize this, it’s never too late to change… 6th Don’t make promises when you are in joy. Don’t reply when you are sad. Don’t take d...

Hello ! FRIENDS, Welcome at 'SomeGoodTricks' Today, I will tell you about the habits that are making you unsuccessful and lazy. It may possible that you already know these . Here are these Bad habits affecting your daily routine and works : (1) Irregular schedule of sleeping : You would think , why I have chosen this habit as first bad habit ... because if we feel sleepy all the time, we can't do any work with our best effort. Some people always say - Today I didn't have a good sleep and still I am feeling like sleepy. So, you have to first schedule your sleeping time as when to go to bed and when to rise at morning. At whatever time you sleep and rise, the focus should be on the " A peaceful sound sleep " that can relax your body and mind. In the line with Early to bed, early to rise , if you want to wake up early in the morning but unable to do so, you must read STEVE PAVLINA'S blog article : " How to rise early in t...

Hello Friends, Welcome at ....SomeGoodTricks ! So... do you really want to know what is your biggest mistake ?   Guess what it may be : (1) To be lazy ? (2) To eat unnecessarily ? Or (3) To lie ? Yet these are also our big mistakes but there is another mistake probably we all do, is.... " Not believing in yourself and not taking any risk " In my opinion, this is the biggest mistake of our life and because of this, we always suffer with an unwanted work we have to do. If we believe in ourselves, we can take a risk and follow our dreams. Actually, I experienced that I didn't follow my dreams and didn't trust on my talents and did the job I don't like. As result, I failed. But then I knew the value of my skills, my dreams, my talents and started to explore them. I am still learning but enough confident to get my dreams fulfilled. Friends ! If we do what we like, at least we enjoy our work. " Life is not for getting things, life is fo...